Looking For Love?

I found this Pin on Pinterest, and was about to share it with a friend of mine who’s been looking for Mr Perfect for 10 years…then I stopped and decided to instead share it with all my Sisters in the world, who are looking for Love:


Ladies, don’t dumb yourselves down to his level. He either meets you on your own terms, or you walk away with your head held high. No big loss there! Remember, you can’t win an argument with an idiot, so don’t even try.

Don’t feel like “He’s the Man”, and that you have to play nice little wifey at home, second fiddle to his big fat…double bass. You deserve better than that, and you know it, girl! Men and Women are equal, sure there are physical and physiological differences, but we should stand side by side and complement each other, instead of Man expecting Woman to stand slightly behind him and walk in his shadow. I call BS on that old-fashioned notion!

Don’t you ever let a man belittle you. You know your own worth. And if he has insecurities the size of…Texas then that’s His problem, not yours. Never agree to become his human punchbag or scapegoat. If he pushes you, you hit back. Hard. And I mean that literally as well as figuratively. Plus, if a man has to hurt a woman at all, that’s not love, it’s abuse. Don’t stand for it. Walk away.

A weak man is like a man-child, who will run home to Mummy at the first sign of trouble. He listens to what his mates say, instead of formulating his own thoughts and moral franework. A man-child will have other man-children as his friends, so it will be a case of the blind leading the blind. Ladies, if you happen to meet a man like that, do yourself a favour and walk on. Believe me, it’s not worth the drama.

What every relationship needs is Love, Honesty, Truth and Respect. And if a Man is unable or unwilling to commit himself to those, and instead resorts to lies and subterfuge to cover up his exploits on the side, then you have Nothing. And Ladies, don’t settle for Nothing, you know you’re worth much more than that. If a Man truly Loves you, he will always be Honest and tell you the Truth, because that is how he Respects you. Never settle for less!

Ladies, don’t fall for men who are only after your body. That’s not Love, that’s simply Lust. Remember, your physical form won’t always be as pert, firm and bouncy as they may be now…when things start heading down south, where do you think Mr Lust will be heading? Yes, to the next, newer, younger model.

Yes, first impressions count, but also never judge a book by its cover, right? Because, underneath that beautiful packaging, with its wondrous bulges and curves, may lurk a hideous, narcissistic personality or a cruel, sadistic mind. So, when looking for Love, always go for the Heart and Soul first. Everything else is just icing on the cake.

But, most importantly, when looking for Love, remember to first find it in yourself. Yes, you Are loveable. Having no man in your life, but loving yourself for the Awesome Woman that you are, is worlds better than having a man in your life but finding that you’re making each other miserable, but not quite knowing why. If you first love yourself, everything else falls into place. Your attitude and outlook will act as a mirror that attracts the right Man into your life.

If you still need a Man, that is. 😉


(Image sources, Pinterest and Google)

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